We are going through a tough phase as a family now. R thatha is not with us anymore and it is tearing us apart when you go stand in front of his photo and talk to him.
You are talking/thinking more about thatha since yesterday as now we have his picture placed at living room.
Your only wish today while blowing the candle is to have R thatha alive. I hope this wish comes true.
These are words from you at random times today with no influence from anyone.
“It is not fair Amma. Thatha should know that its my birthday today. How can he just go? He should be here”
“Amma, I now have only one thatha. Can you tell K thatha to be thatha #1 and thatha #2?”
“Amma, can R thatha hear me when I talk to him? Will he come if I call him?”
“Amma, thatha died. He can’t talk to me anymore”
To keep you up, we did cake cutting at Ammachi’s home and went out for dinner with extended family. I do not have the energy to recollect and write about your last year. I will do it some other day.
You are the biggest blessing to our family da. Our life would have been dull and serious without you. You are the binding factor and you bring out all type of emotions from all of us. You make us laugh, cry, fear and shout with your traits.
Your laugh is contagious. You amaze me with the over thinking of that little brain of yours. I say “Indha kutty moolai evlo yosikudhu”..
You talk NON-STOP. I mean it. You can’t stay quite for two minutes together. You have to talk to breathe normal. Your other name can be Mr.Nagger.
May you be blessed with good health and happiness, Love you kutty!
Morning went to LHB’s school for the craft time. We made snow man and it was the perfect day to do this craft as it was snowing outside! He was a proud boy, helping his friends to make the craft and I was his assistant 🙂
For dinner, Adi made vegetable lasagna. This girl will even eat the paper if the word cheese is written on it!!
Winter storm is approaching and Monday is a holiday so next 3 days will be mostly spent indoors. Hope to catch up on my reader and take some rest!!
LHB is the start of the week. He has been waiting for his turn since the beginning of the year.
Monday – we shared the details about his favorites.
Favorite color – Golden
Favorite story – Power rangers
Favorite food – French fries (I suggested cone dosa and he said his school friends doesn’t know about tamil food) Apparently dosa has become tamil food to him 🙂
Favorite animal – Elephant
He wants to be a Vet when he grows up
Tuesday – Shared pictures. He took pictures taken with his friends, grandparents and family. They will be displayed in the class for this week.
Wednesday – Read a favorite story. I had to hunt down for a power ranger book but couldn’t find it in any library. Finally, a friend and his daughter came to rescue. They got me some marvel story books from the library closer to their home. Thanks to the friend for dropping the books last night. I read stories about Iron man and Hulk to his class today morning. I love these story reading sessions. LHB sat on my lap when I was reading and the proud on his face. Priceless!!
Thursday – Take favorite toy. He has a big list of stuffed animals to take with him tomorrow.
Friday – Craft day. We have to do a craft with the class. I am happy the teacher sorted out the craft details. All I have to do is take the supplies she requested for and show up 🙂
One day LHB was asking us for lego watch and we did the usual reply. We will get it when we need to get it. So, the little boy declared he will buy it for himself and we didn’t take it very serious. After some time he asked if I want water, forced a cup of water in my hand and said one dollar Amma. Apparently he emptied a WHOLE case of bottled water into the cooler and started selling water to everyone at home to save money for the lego watch. And I don’t even remember when that cooler was washed last!! Yikesss. I was happy as I got suspicious and didn’t sip that water.
Kids and their little mind!! From then on, we never leave him unattended for more than 10 minutes as who knows what damage will he do!!
Today deserves a picture post as I am too lazy to type anything
This was the scene on 2nd Jan unusual mid morning while I settled on the corner of the bed (that was allocated for me. I have been isolated by the family to keep my germs to myself) with my work laptop attending calls, surrounded by tissue roll, vicks, tiger balm, hot water and LHB next to me playing mix and match game in iPad. Somehow, I feel safe when he is next to me!
Adi even separated the bed with a pillow to keep me and my blankets/pillows away from touching them while sleeping and in these two days I have started to like my own little corner 🙂
LHB’s school is closed this week and its hard to manage this boy at home. Today its just the two of us at home. He is watching TWO hours of TV show in the morning but I try to make up for that in the evening by engaging him! He is taking a nap upstairs on his own surrounded by his plush dolls as I am typing this!
LHB has started Kindergarten today. Beginning of a new chapter in his life. I hope he copes up with this journey, makes loads of friends and grows as a well rounded human being. After home it is the school where he spends most of his time. Hope it stays as an enjoyable journey for him.
We woke up early in the morning (thanks to Akka’s early morning routine), did all morning routine with no big fuss, prayed God, did our jingu chika dance ritual and reached school ahead of time.
He said no hair styling and pictures but agreed to do them after reaching school. I acted quick pulling out the styling gel kept hidden in my bag, brushed his hair and we took loads of pictures. Happy mommy 🙂
That is his school head teacher and they made it so smooth for the kids to adapt this change of routine.
Scene 1: The family is driving back from Adi’s piano concert. LHB (out of the blue): Amma, can you buy pinata for my 6th birthday? Please Amma, Please!! Dotting Amma: Ok sure da!!
Scene 2 – LHB crying buckets that he doesn’t want to go to the backup care on Monday. I put him in backup care for next 3 weeks as his school is closed for the year.
Self: You know what! I want to tell you a secret baby. Can you come here and sit next to me? (I was sitting in stairs) LHB: (reluctantly came and sat next to me still crying). Self: You know what is the secret? even I don’t want to go to office tomorrow baby! what do we do? LHB: (stops crying instantly, wipes his tears and whispers to me) You stay home Amma, then I will also stay with you! Self: But, I have to tell my office baby! LHB: Don’t tell them Amma. Just stay home. Don’t tell anybody! Self: But, but if I don’t tell them, then they will not give me money. And if I don’t get money, how can I buy the Pinata for your 6th birthday?? LHB: Speechless but didn’t cry anymore. Self: I made a deal to keep him home on Friday’s, I will tell my office that I have to work from home on Friday to take care of my baby!
Poor chap! Though I felt like a winner handling the situation, my heart melted seeing the poor boy speechless!